Saturday, May 14, 2011


What does Confidence mean to you?!
Where do you get your confidence from?!

Confidence is important in anything you do… when talking with people (even with friends), when at work (presentation, etc…), and for me, when cooking, too!

I started to live by myself when I was 18, so I now don't really depend on my parents. However, speaking of confidence, I am pretty wimpy. I worry a lot about trivial things and dwell on the past X(

But 7 years ago, after I met my darling, I changed. I still have those wimpy feelings but I don't care that much like before. My darling always listens me and say "you can do whatever you want" like a God. haha That's why I could easily quit my job. And I have groundless confidence in doing my stuff… Why I say groundless is because me in the past might think in that way. haha

I always nag my darling but I really thank him for being with me :D

My mom gave me a planter of Euphorbia milii. It signifies self-dependence. I know. I somewhat try not to depend on my darling. But let me depend on him while I'm with him. hehe

My mom gave me this a day before mother's day and was a flower for mother's day (actually with a card) which was pretty funny. Silly my mom. haha

Anyways, I'm glad to find the Blogger back now... it was quite a long down!!! Unfortunately some of the comments were gone X( I have copies in my e-mail, so I will reply to those comments when I get a chance. I hope the Blogger won't have a problem again...

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  1. Blogger was down? I didn't notice it.. maybe I was sleeping hehe
    Oh yes, confidence is so important, even when talking with your darling :) I often lack confidence, I feel it's because I am an unwanted child, so my mommy didn't like me and I grew up with her feeling nobody wants me. I am still learning to deal with that, even 23 years later lol
    You are so lucky to have a such supporting husband! I hope you guys can love each other forever :)
    And yes, your mom is so silly haha
    Maybe she didn't pay attention to the card? haha

  2. I know what you mean by losing comments! I didn't connect it with my email so I lost a lot of comments and sadly, I don't remember everyone who commented T_T I was so sad when blogger was down hahaha

    Oh wow, you live on your own since 18? So young!!! That's good you are confident with yourself! and that your hun supports you so much! =D hahaha I think it's okay to depend on your hun! I depend on mines too~! It's not that Im not independent but I sometimes think it's a girl thing =P

    I used to not be very confident and it was easy for people to walk all over me but now I feel like I've "opened" my eyes to the world and feel kuch more confident. Not everything a person says about themselves is true and you should never let anyone talk to you as if they are better!!! I used to have this problem for a bit, it was bad but now I feel like I've grown a bit because I've seen past that =)

  3. Hi Ochi,

    Yes, the blogger was under maintenance few days ago and we also cant access on it. I thought that my computer having a big problem at that moment. Luckily it doesn't. I am a low confidence girl. I scared eye to eye communications with people. I should train myself to be confidence like you.

  4. Hi Jenia,

    You are lucky that it happened while you were away because many updates at that time are still missing X(

    I'm sorry to hear about your mommy but are you still living with her?! I think she is happy to have such a creative and kind child like you!!! My mom wasn't like that but I was always compared with my siblings and I was kind of feeling pressured… so that is one reason why I prefer to live by myself away from my family. I like my family but I don't want that kind of feelings, you know!

  5. Hi suki,

    I'm sorry to hear about your comments… but same for mine X( I know receiving e-mail is too much but it helped me for this time.

    I don't think I can be confident without my darling. haha Because I care too much so I always need to consult with him. Yes, a girl thing!

    I totally understand about people who walk over the weak… I experienced it when I first came back to Japan after living overseas for about 6 years (when I was an elementary school student). I still hate that time and wonder why that happened on me...

  6. Hi anGeLine,

    I'm glad to see you up!!! How are you and sisters?!

    Oh, for me, you and all other bloggers look more confident than me!!! I am learning from you all at the same time I consult with my darling. hehe


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